Starting Over in My 30s
How I Healed Through My Gifts
Notary. Real Estate. Phlebotomy. Insurance. These weren’t just jobs, they were healing assignments.
I’m a 30 year old mom, I didn’t just start over.
I surrendered. To God.
To the call on my life.
To the gifts He planted in me, gifts I used to doubt, until I realized they were the very tools He’d use to heal me.
Here’s how I went from survival mode to soft Mompreneur Billionaire energy, while honoring my astrology, & blood type as a blueprint every step of the way. While keeping God as my ultimate source
🌿 Phase 1: Notary
Finding my identity in Christ
In a quiet space, with signatures and stamps, I learned to be still.
Notarizing wasn’t just about paperwork, it was God asking, “Do you know who you are?”
This was the beginning of spiritual obedience and divine identity.
Scripture: 2 Corinthians 1:22 – “He has set His seal of ownership on us.”
🏡 Phase 2: Real Estate
Decluttering + Letting Go
This was where God pruned me.
Old spaces, old relationships, expired versions of myself gone.
I made room, not just in my home, but in my heart.
Scripture: Isaiah 43:19 – “See, I am doing a new thing…”
🩸 Phase 3: Phlebotomy
Knowing My Body + Habits
Learning to draw blood taught me to read my body’s wisdom.
As a Blood Type A woman, I needed stillness, plant-based nourishment, and divine order.
Healing is becoming a habit, not a hustle.
Scripture: 1 Corinthians 6:19 – “Your body is a temple…”
🛡 Phase 4: Insurance
Rebirth + Divine Protection
It wasn’t just about policies, it was about spiritual covering.
God reminded me: I’m your provider. Your protector. Your peace.
I learned to trust divine provision and build from overflow.
Scripture: Psalm 91:4 – “He will cover you with His feathers…”
👑 Phase 5: Embodiment
The Notarized Billionaire Soft Mompreneur
Now, I embody all of it.
I don’t chase, I align.
I don’t overwork. I rest and receive.
This phase is the integration of every license, every prayer, and every rebirth.
🌌 My Divine Design Backed This Journey
Here’s why it all makes sense energetically:
Aquarius Sun: The visionary here to heal through systems, innovation, and divine downloads.
Cancer Moon: The nurturer mothering myself and others through softness and emotional safety.
Gemini Rising: The messenger my healing is meant to be shared, taught, and turned into tools.
Blood Type A: I’m built for stillness, strategy, and plant-based purpose.
Life Path 6: I’m the healer, the family builder, the sacred homemaker.
Wood Pig Zodiac: I’m soft, abundant, generous and protected.
If you’re starting over in your 30s…
Trust this: your gifts are healing tools.
Your pain is a portal.
And your purpose is waiting on your yes.
Let me know in the comments 👇🏽
Which phase you’re in right now, I’d love to hold space for your healing in the comments 💕
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Kaylene, thank you for sharing your story so honestly. Starting over in your 30s can feel daunting, but your courage and perspective are truly inspiring.